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	<description>(Mere stuff and nonsense, I assure you.)</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 21 Nov 2009 20:01:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by plaridel</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-78</link>
		<dc:creator>plaridel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2009 01:04:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hello captain,

take a break if you must.  but don't abandon us as we await journalspace's second coming.  we're not losing hope as yet.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hello captain,</p>
<p>take a break if you must.  but don&#8217;t abandon us as we await journalspace&#8217;s second coming.  we&#8217;re not losing hope as yet.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by snowangel</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-77</link>
		<dc:creator>snowangel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Mar 2009 22:32:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>ahh.  dont' go.  i admit the new js frustrates me and it's hard to keep one here and at blogspot.. 

but i wish you wouldn't go.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>ahh.  dont&#8217; go.  i admit the new js frustrates me and it&#8217;s hard to keep one here and at blogspot.. </p>
<p>but i wish you wouldn&#8217;t go.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by lonewolf</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-76</link>
		<dc:creator>lonewolf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Feb 2009 05:40:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That sucks. At least I can still keep in touch with you on Facebook. I haven't been writing in my blog here either, but it's not due to complaints about the site here, but rather my own lack of motivation. Anything I write in my blog here won't be me bitching about the site here. In fact my life is in such a good place right now that bitching about anything at all seems unlikely... anything that is except the prospect of you leaving. I'd miss your blog entries. You're a hell of a writer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That sucks. At least I can still keep in touch with you on Facebook. I haven&#8217;t been writing in my blog here either, but it&#8217;s not due to complaints about the site here, but rather my own lack of motivation. Anything I write in my blog here won&#8217;t be me bitching about the site here. In fact my life is in such a good place right now that bitching about anything at all seems unlikely&#8230; anything that is except the prospect of you leaving. I&#8217;d miss your blog entries. You&#8217;re a hell of a writer.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Do a YouTube Video by lyrnpcgs</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/14/how-to-do-a-youtube-video/comment-page-1/#comment-75</link>
		<dc:creator>lyrnpcgs</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Feb 2009 03:01:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;strong&gt;lyrnpcgs...&lt;/strong&gt;

lyrnpcgs...</description>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by wizardress</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-74</link>
		<dc:creator>wizardress</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 17:15:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>*big hugs Manda*  

Even though I don't know you that well, I would hate to see you go, but I really do understand your feelings.

I've been surprised at some of the reactions I've seen as well, and I've just had to shake my head and know that I'm not responsible for the action of others, but what I am responsible for is the way I choose to deal with those reactions, and in reality, what difference will it make in my life (or yours in t his case) to how another person reacts to something that is beyond all of our control?   In my case, the answer has been none,  so just let it go :)  

I am a very emotional soul, and I often take things personally too, so I do understand that it is sometimes easier said than done, and also why I generally sit  on things before I am reactive to them.

If this experience has become one that is toxic for you, I wouldn't encourage you or anyone else to stick it out, but maybe it's time for an evaluation of whether it is the experience, or the people, and put that 'toxicity eliminator' into action.   It isn't always easy, but sometimes necessary- after all YOU have to take care of YOU!!

*big hugs and much love*

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>*big hugs Manda*  </p>
<p>Even though I don&#8217;t know you that well, I would hate to see you go, but I really do understand your feelings.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been surprised at some of the reactions I&#8217;ve seen as well, and I&#8217;ve just had to shake my head and know that I&#8217;m not responsible for the action of others, but what I am responsible for is the way I choose to deal with those reactions, and in reality, what difference will it make in my life (or yours in t his case) to how another person reacts to something that is beyond all of our control?   In my case, the answer has been none,  so just let it go <img src='http://captainmando.journalspace.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />  </p>
<p>I am a very emotional soul, and I often take things personally too, so I do understand that it is sometimes easier said than done, and also why I generally sit  on things before I am reactive to them.</p>
<p>If this experience has become one that is toxic for you, I wouldn&#8217;t encourage you or anyone else to stick it out, but maybe it&#8217;s time for an evaluation of whether it is the experience, or the people, and put that &#8216;toxicity eliminator&#8217; into action.   It isn&#8217;t always easy, but sometimes necessary- after all YOU have to take care of YOU!!</p>
<p>*big hugs and much love*</p>
<p> <img src='http://captainmando.journalspace.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on How to Change Your Template by How-To Previewing and activating themes</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/15/how-to-change-your-template/comment-page-1/#comment-73</link>
		<dc:creator>How-To Previewing and activating themes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 16:22:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Oh, the things you’ll think… » Blog Archive » How to Change Your &#8230;  SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: "How-To Previewing and activating themes", url: "http://www.wordpresshostingtips.com/wp-video-tutorials/how-to-previewing-and-activating-themes/" }); [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[...] Oh, the things you’ll think… » Blog Archive » How to Change Your &#8230;  SHARETHIS.addEntry({ title: &#8220;How-To Previewing and activating themes&#8221;, url: &#8220;http://www.wordpresshostingtips.com/wp-video-tutorials/how-to-previewing-and-activating-themes/&#8221; }); [...]</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by finn</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-72</link>
		<dc:creator>finn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 14:52:08 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deleting is like suicide -- pretty permanent..  Much better imo to just take a break and see how you feel down the road.

I think I can safely opine that NOBODY who was active in the old JS has been pleased by the developments of the last 45 days.

How we deal with it probably reflects what kind of people we are.   I hope you stay.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deleting is like suicide &#8212; pretty permanent..  Much better imo to just take a break and see how you feel down the road.</p>
<p>I think I can safely opine that NOBODY who was active in the old JS has been pleased by the developments of the last 45 days.</p>
<p>How we deal with it probably reflects what kind of people we are.   I hope you stay.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by cartguyforever</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-71</link>
		<dc:creator>cartguyforever</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 13:49:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes it's best to get and do other things for awhile.  Maybe you'll come back really refreshed and want to be here, maybe you won't.  Either way, summer is coming soon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it&#8217;s best to get and do other things for awhile.  Maybe you&#8217;ll come back really refreshed and want to be here, maybe you won&#8217;t.  Either way, summer is coming soon.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by andimac</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-70</link>
		<dc:creator>andimac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 12:27:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>:-(</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> <img src='http://captainmando.journalspace.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Toxic by lifelived</title>
		<link>http://captainmando.journalspace.com/2009/01/31/toxic/comment-page-1/#comment-69</link>
		<dc:creator>lifelived</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Feb 2009 11:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Please do what you need to - for you.  I wish you nothing but the best.  maggs.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Please do what you need to - for you.  I wish you nothing but the best.  maggs.</p>
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